Good things to talk about

This post is for men and women around the world. I was randomly pulling up things on google and it came up with things to talk about with all your significant. I said "HALT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" ladies and gentlemen, if you really want to keep conversations going with someone you like or are interested in here are some tips coming from the guy side.

Ask how your significant others day was. I mean seriously, how many couples say the 3 words of "How are you?" I mean honestly if you are really interested in someone and they are interested in you, more than likely the other person will respond with something besides "Good" or "Ok" or (my personal favorite) "Fine". Ladies and Gentle men, one word replies mean that something is on their mind, something that can be either good or bad, and more bad than good. If you are having trouble getting responses out of your significant other confront them with the fact that they seem down or upset about something. Give them time to explain.

Speaking of Giving time to explain, women if you really want a man interested in you, let him talk about his problems before you talk to him about yours. And by problems I mean ALL of them. Guys are humans just like women are and guys do have emotions. Let them speak their mind and try to help them before you butt in and make an even more negative remark about your life.

All examples can switch rolls between men and women. I just so happen to find a lot more information on women than men.

For example. (Real life situation, happens to me and friends that I talk to)

Girl: Hey how are you?

Boy: Okay I guess

Girl: I'm sorry

THIS DOES NOT HELP THE SITUATION INSTEAD YOU SHOULD SAY...

Girl: Why just okay?

Boy: rumbles and mumbles about some family instances that are making him stressed.

Girl: Well my cat died yesterday and I have been having a hard time.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! do you see how crappy of an answer that is. The guy only explained a little bit of what could be a bigger situation. Instead ask if you can help, or if their is anything you can do. If you want to make an impression last, ask if you can help.

Do not dull the conversation.

Guy: "Hey how are you?"

Girl: "I am good"

Guy: "Thats good"

Girl: ":)"

DO NOT PUT A RANDOM SMILEY FACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! people drive me insane with putting smiley faces. It's like you really couldnt ask me the same question I just asked you? I mean seriously if you can't even ask the person you like how they are doing, then chances are you do not want to be with them at all.

Ladies and Gentlemen, just remember to be kind and curteous to your significant other. They are with you for a reason. Find that reason and make it a happy relationship that is filled with natural conversation and joy.

Here are some things that are natural and just out of the blue. Three categories which I am dividing into are Starting to communicate on a daily basis, Seeing each other on a daily basis, and Being with each other in a full time relationship  on a daily basis.

Starting to Communicate on a daily basis.
- So you have just met someone that you like and you want to know more about them. However you don't know what to ask or anything like that here are some things that can help you.
1) Start with Hello and your name
2) Ask a general question like "what do you do for a living" or "what is your major" or even a compliment like "I couldn't help but notice your eyes were sparkling in the light from where I was at." Compliments are a great way to keep the awkwardness away but too many compliments just turn out to be a sucking up process

So now you and your significant other are starting to meet and go to lunch together, or get a coffee or something to that nature. You want to know what to say when you sit down at a dinner table for 2 or a walk on the beach.
1) Ask about family. Family is a big thing for a lot of people. Asking if your significant other has any siblings or has a pet in the family or something like that would be of good interest. This usually leads to letting you know if the significant others parents are divorced if one of the parents has passed away. That is something to know for when you get to stage three with your partner. A lot of the information you will receive during this time will be things you will need to know for a long time. Example, birthday, family, jobs, hobbies, favorite team, stuff like that. It is where most of the talking takes place.

Finally you and your partner have decided to be in a full on relationship. Congrats! Now is the time when you should ask the important questions, the baggage that your partner has (if there is any you do not know of already), what does your partner want to do in the future (so like future plans), things that are their strong and weak point. and finally just being with each other overall is the main focus. Make sure to keep asking about your partner and complimenting and more if you desire. But remember it is all about how you approach someone and how they talk to you that makes the most impact on meeting someone new.

Have a great Thursday!