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Thursday, October 11, 2012
An update on life
1) I officially lost 100lbs. I am now actually at a consistent 235lbs. It feels great and I am in the most amazing shape of my life
2) I am taking 19 credits and am teaching 7 students. The reason why I have been so busy and not posting blogs. I will start back soon. I promise!
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
I am almost there...
I finally am starting to realize who I am, what I am becoming, how I can change the world. I can finally sit down and do things for me and not because of anybody else. I am finally becoming that free man.
I have to work in the morning. So everyone get a good night's rest and be proud of who you are tomorrow morning!
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
The real thoughts of the single man.
And its not like I can go and re create my life. I just can't. I am not that man who just goes and screws around with other women. I want a solid relationship and what we had was as solid as gold. You were the one for me. And then my stupid thoughts and a another woman, a woman who turned out to just completely cut me out of her life for my best friend made me lose you. You wanna know the truth? That IS the truth.
Do I regret my decision. Absolutely not. Why am I saying this then? I don't know honestly. I feel like it just needs to come out somewhere. Its not like I have any friends I can really tell this to. They were all against you to begin with. Why? Because they were jealous of what we had. Turns out they won in the end. The decision that I made did not hurt me then, but deep inside it crawled through my body and decided to burn a hole in my heart, a hole you used to fill.
That decision is now the reason I have lost 85 pounds, the reason why I have never had sex with another woman (or kissed for that matter.) I don't like the way it feels, it doesn't feel the same. It never will.
I hope this somehow gets to you. somehow, someway. Whether it be through an email or a bottle floating in the ocean it is meant for you, just like you were meant for me.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Stop Eating Chocolate Challenge
I just found this website called experienceproject.com. I am definitely going to try this website out as it is a source to help motivate your self!
Trying something new
I would definitely recommend it. Its called Barefoot Running by Michael Sandler. Read it, your mind will be blown.
Thursday, July 12, 2012
College Tuition
Just wanted to let y'all know that I love my job. Its pretty cool
Im now going to play bass... talk to y'all later!
Monday, July 9, 2012
the days are going by very quickly.
sorry for not typing in a while. I know I have a lotttttttttt to talk about. So let me go get this thing real quick and I'll be right back....
okay... now that I am back... Walmart went from good to bad to just plain ugly... Like starting off we had this awesome supervisor and he really didn't care and it was just plain awesome. I mean we were getting work done... Then the weekend came and a different supervisor came in. The woman was a pure bitch... I swear like on a scale from 1-20 her attitude was like a 400.... I have never worked so hard in my life or sweated that much (and trust me I have gotten 900 cabinets off of a truck by myself before.) I never ever wanna touch cardboard again. I just want to stay away from that place when that women was there. The guy that I was working with quit halfway through 2 nights before the overall job ended and so I had to buff the next three nights (which buffing walmart is about 15 miles a night).
However I did find a new job, and I am so far happy with it.
It is at a place called Johnson Control Incorporation. They make car batteries (yes like your car battery that you have). They have over 500 machines and a lot of oil and lead in the plant. My job is to take each machine, find every valve on the machine, spray the valve the correct color with spray paint. and then label the pipe such as air valve or lead valve or stored energy.
Now you might think that this is a little weird and childish.... However if someone turns on a stored energy valve thinking it is an air valve and then does not turn it off, the plant could blow up. Or if someone things they are turning on an air valve and they turn on a lead valve they could be intoxicating themselves. I don't know about you, but to me that sounds like I am saving lives in the future (because people have literally died from cases like this).
So now that I consider myself a here (and I make more money then I did at walmart) I have been spending my mula on some stuff. Specifically for my car. I just bought 2 pairs of speakers for my car and I really want to get an amp and sub woofer 12" in my car. However I don't know if I can because I don't know if I can fit my instrument with a sub woof and all my other accessories with it. I don't know.. I will have to think about it some more.
There is nothing else to talk about besides that. I have actually found someone back home that I am kinda interested in... Idk why but I just have that feeling. Last time I talked about someone on here though that relationship went south very quickly. But anyways. I hope everyone is having a wonderful Monday night. and have a happy, safe, wonderful week!
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Walmart Day 3
You people are disgusting.
Do you realize how much food was collected under those shelves in 2 days?
Here some statistics in case you were wondering.
Last night we had 52 cans come out from underneath the shelves. 40 of which were beans. We had 15 bags of candy. 17 drinks. I personally found a chicken wing that someone ate and threw underneath there. I mean seriously... can people just not put up there shit when they get done. There are over 20 trash cans through out the store. It is not that hard people!
We had to do the same think over in the pet department. 75 dog and cat food cans combined 23 cat and dog toys and 14 dog bones, and a dead fish. (it is the Walmart employees fault for the fish).
The toy department had 29 balls laying under the shelves. and there were 8 water guns.
We came out to a total of $700 dollars underneath all three places that we cleaned. That's a lot of money under the shelves.
And honestly, we don't want to clean all that out. So do is us a favor and if you drop something put it back up, OR throw it away.
People always say I don't like going into walmart because it is not clean. Well its not clean because people throw their trash on the ground. I mean come on people how hard can it be to walk 5 feet and put a chicken wing in a trash can?
I did find out some things about the managers though. Pretty neat stuff actually.
They all suck...
Just kidding, but some of them are just a bunch of hard heads with college degrees. We operate under 2 managers, the head manager (which is a pretty cool guy, very relaxed) and the specific manager (the guy who is in charge of maintenance. He is not that bad but I could definitely work for someone better then him.)
Hopefully tonight I can have a little more fun then last night, because last night all hell broke loose. I was literally sweating sweeping things up. Do you realize how much sweeping you have to do to sweat?
But I go in about an hour and a half. Everyone have a good night. I am going to go kick some more butt!
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Walmart Day 2
It actually is not as bad as what people think. I did mostly Janitorial stuff (I did clean bathrooms) and I did a little bit of stocking.
The employees are not that bad of people. Yes they do not talk that much, but it IS third shift. What is there to talk about?
Another thing that drained the life out of me last night was the fact that we have an HOUR lunch. That is just ridiculous when you are tired. It really does drain the life out of you.
I do feel sore from walking around so much. I will not lie about that. I am not sure what exactly is in pain, but I do feel a little bit uneasy as far as the time shift and everything like that, hopefully it will get better.
Finally I noticed that the employees actually get treated somewhat well. I was talking to a guy who has been at Walmart Stores all over and he said "Walmart Stores and management might not be designed to help people as much as they need to, but they do have great job security." This I did find to be true.
I saw that Walmart offered 2 scholarships for college students, one of which can get up to 16,000 dollars. Pretty impressive stuff when you think about it.
They do understand sick issues. My friend who came with me yesterday actually had to leave because he was extremely sick. It sucks but they said they would let him back if he wanted to. I believe he declined.
Besides that it was all mostly learning, and by learning I mean learning as you go. We did not watch any video at all or know exactly what to do for the full 8 hours if you want to think of it that way. The job that I do can literally take about 4 hours if everyone actually worked hard. However it IS third shift.
I will keep you more informed tomorrow. Everyone have a great afternoon.
Monday, June 25, 2012
Walmart
Okay so since i dont really know what to talk about anymore i want to let everyone know that i started a job at walmart. I am doing janitorial services during the night shift. I have two goals in mind.
1) earn money to help with expenses
2) to see what walmart is really like during the night hours
I took this job mostly for the second reason. They (walmart) do not know this but i will keep you informed for two weeks about the night life of walmart.
So far i have not had a good experience. We walked in and the Lady was very rude that we talked to. The guy that we are supposed to see was also a little rude and said that we should have not been here until 10:00. We (my friend who is working with me and myself) showed up early to hopefully get a true tour of walmart and learn how everything works. I guess we will wait and see.
I will let everyone know how day 1 of "Operation Walmart" went tomorrow morning
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Carolina
Thursday, June 21, 2012
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
Trying to hard
I have always told myself no. But I believe I now have thoughts about changing that.
I have lost 80 pounds, am getting a successful job plan and college degree and still try to push harder. It is like an obsession to be the best I can be. But I still wonder if that is good enough.
And I want to know what people think about me because of it. I know most of you will say "don't care what others think" and I agree but what about that special someone. I mean anybody could technically be that "special someone" could they not. If I look bad in front of them what happens to me?
I just wish I could be happy with myself for once. but I probably will never be that way. I just need to accept it.
Sunday, June 17, 2012
The daily news
Late night saturday/ early morning sunday thinking
I would like to thank you guys for viewing my blog. It motivates me to keep inspiring new things to talk about and to try to be a more open person. I know a lot of you probably have never met me or know me, but I am usually very shy when I am confronted with people. This is my chance to get away from life.
Which brings me to my next topic. Which is this whole love thing that I keep telling you about. I know she hates me for telling you guys about our business but we have had our fights and now we barely talk. and she still thinks it is my fault for putting our business up here. She never understood that I really had nothing but this to go to.
But I have been thinking about her lately, even though I said that I am over with her and that I am finished, it is hard to keep me from thinking about her. I mean I know it will not work out. But I believe that is the way it was supposed to be. I want to be her friend I really do, and I still love her like a friend. I wish I could see us going further but it is hard to do. When I put my arms around her it just didn't feel like it was supposed to, it didn't feel right. Im not saying it is her fault, but I want it to feel right when I finally am affectionate with my body.
I believe that another reason it didn't feel right was because she never tried to pursue me as more than a friend. I know that sounds bad with me and yes I do admit that I pushed to much. But when you constantly pay for her meals and take her places you do except something in return.
I mean if I honestly want to be in a relationship I want them to show me as much love and as much passion as I show them. I want to be able to stare into their eyes and know that all they think about is me and their dreams and life and that they are able to counter balance between their lives and myself. Is that to hard to ask? I thought women were good at multitasking. (That is a joke)
But This is what is on my mind as I am up at 12:40 talking about nonsense as usual. I just would like a sense of direction as far as my relationship part of my life goes. I have lost 75 pounds, I am starting to wind down my weight loss journey, and I am ready to take on my relationship journey, I feel like it is time to shift gears.
Good night everyone, I will post some wonderful pictures of animals tomorrow morning :D
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Wild Friday
I have completed 3 intense days of Insanity, the program that I have switched over for my body so I can lose the final 30 pounds. I have to say that I have been very sore lately (which is my excuse for cheesy love quotes and happy quotes from my tablet).
But tomorrow is my recovery day and consists of all stretches. I have heard that after day 4 your body starts to relax a little more. So hopefully that will happen to me.
In other exciting news I am going to the zoo tomorrow. Riverbanks zoo in Columbia, is ranked number 4 in the nation and am very excited (don't worry I will post up pictures tomorrow during my time off)
Finally Today was my last day of teaching our maymester class at String Project, all of my students did very well and we all had a fun time. It was good to finally see them play in front of an audience :D
Well I hope everyone had a wonderful day, be safe and enjoy the Friday that is coming up!!
The laughing voyages
The human race has only one really effective weapon and that is laughter. - Mark Twain
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Dont fall
Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love, because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.
Accidentally in love
You know you love someone when they're the last thought on your mind before you go to sleep and the first thing on your mind when you wake up.
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Raining Again
Will you ever go away?
You have been here more than a day.
I guess you thought you could come and stay.
Well nobody likes it anymore okay?
You should leave and head north, get out of here quick,
because the people in the south do not want you to stick.
We want to go have some fun outside,
instead of watching the rain and going along with the ride.
So please dear rain will you please go away?
Because we would like to have a great day today.
-Andrew Price
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Monday, June 11, 2012
My weight loss as of now
-Starting from January 9th where I weighed in at 340 pounds I have
-Lost 71.8 pounds (that's the size of your average 10 year old boy)
-Lost 2 T-shirt sizes (I now fit in a large comfortably)
-Lost over 4 inches off of my waist (I now fit between a 36-38 size jeans)
-My combined total of weight loss is over 20% (Meaning I have officially lost a 5th of what I used to be)
- Have officially gotten myself out of the "Obese" category according to the BMI and into the "Overweight" Category (Normal is at 240 pounds which is my goal)
- Have successfully removed any threats of diabetes, high blood pressure, or cholesterol problems from my body
- Can now run the mile in less than 8 minutes
- Can successfully complete a 20 mile bike ride and not pass out
- And finally I officially have no visible stretch marks on my body
GET AT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The final stage of my work out program...
1) To incorporate insanity into my work out (in an effective way)
2) To find my final tricks for eating the best way, all day, everyday
3) To finally start to help other people with their weight loss journeys. It is time to give back to the community!!!
Everyone have a wonderful day!
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Yes!!!
There's no half-singing in the shower, you're either a rock star or an opera diva. - Josh Groban
Describes a certain someone
"If you asked me how many times you have crossed my mind I would say once because you never really left."
My Sunday
Ever since my high school years at Carolina Youth Symphony, I would never have enough time to do anything but that. Now that I am out of high school, I have all the time in the world.
So what am I gonna do today? I believe I will be going to the lake, and bringing lunch with me. I believe that I will work out today, and finally be under the 270's for good. I believe that I will have a life on my Sunday.
However saying that I have a life should not mean that I am alone. Even though I will be alone for most of the day it does not bother me. Today is a day to think. A day to laugh, a day to think, a day to cry. That is what everyday is.
I hope everyone has a great Sunday, spend it with the ones you love, or spend it thinking about your life. Spend it thinking what you are going to do in the future. Spend it thinking about everything you can think about.
It is your life, live it to the fullest.
Saturday, June 9, 2012
My dietary-ness is going to kill me...
At outback steak house I got...
A chargrilled chicken sandwich with no cheese, bacon and only chicken, lettuce tomato, and ketchup
A side of vegetables which included, squash, carrots, broccoli, and peas (less then 500 calories all together)
Water
The waitress asked us for deserts and I said no and she said you get a free ice cream and I had to tell her no.. Like I could not have said yes if I tried. It was pretty depressing but I know that I have done well... I know that I am in this fight for myself now. If nobody will be behind me, I will be behind myself... I have the strength to do this. I will finish what I started
Hard work, dedication, determination
Happiness
If you enter this world knowing you are loved and you leave this world knowing the same, then everything that happens in between can be dealt with. - Michael Jackson
Friday, June 8, 2012
One Heart
We were given: Two hands to hold. Two legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find.
Day 5
So today I am going to go to lake and then work out afterwards. I love the fact that I can now work out late again... However it has put my body through some obstacles because I am having to get back in the groove...
I am also trying to improve my eating habits, once again. Eating healthy is something that I try to do. But it is hard to do when you lack money or you are a college kid like myself. However when I finally get home next Friday, I am going to turn my family upside down as far as eating habits... I cant wait!!
Hope everyone has a beautiful gorgeous day. I know I will!
| Lake Murray |
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Fly Season
And to make matters worse they are like super flies. I have swat one or two of them three times just to get it to stop moving. They are almost invincible.
I will have to bring out the big guns soon.
SMOOOOOOOKE ON THE WATER!!!!
So today I am going to choose Smoke on the Water by Deep Purple to be my top song today... It is such a classic...
Everyone have a great day!
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
Day 3
Speaking of books I have changed my book to a book called "Disturbed Earth." It is based off the 9/11 attacks and is about the Russians in America during that time period. It is actually very good. The main character reminds me a lot about myself.
Hope everyone has a wonderful, and relaxing day today and tomorrow!!
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
Day 2
I work out!!!!!!!!
Big Morning
Now it is all about getting ready before 11:30.
Hope everyone has a big morning this morning and gets something accomplished!!
My Heart
That girl that I was spewing over a couple of days ago, asked me to hang out today. Of course I said sure, as any guy would and so we went to the lake.
We just hung out a little bit, she needed to get her mind off things, or get away from the house (I never did ask what her problem was). But that is what we did, and so we went and stayed at the lake until night time.
We were starting to head home when we decided to go to the pier on the water at night time. The moon was beyond full and it was literally the most romantic thing I have ever seen in my life. So I felt like I needed to do something.
So I squeezed her into my arms and just held her close and tight. She didnt really react the way I expected but that was okay because I felt like she gave me my heart back. I feel like when I hugged her my body pulled back my heart from her and I felt alive again.
So it was good to be able to finally feel free. I believe that this is only the beginning of my journey of love. However I am so glad to have my heart back and I want to be able to let someone else steal it.
I know me and her will always be good friends. But today I found out that that is ALL it is going to be. And I am honestly fine with that. I have made the decision that I need to do things for me. I need to be able to conquer my own quests, strive for excellence and be able to live the way I would like to. Happy and Free.
Everyone have a Good Night!
Monday, June 4, 2012
Turtle
At the end, I found out what it was, the girl got the turtle, and the turtle got a happy home. Yay for things coming together!
Hope everyone has had a great day. Here is a picture of the turtle!
Happy Monday!
This now brings to a bigger concern. I have been at my original home lately and have noticed that my family does not eat like they should. They do work out but they do not treat it as their number one priority. I believe this is my first task now that I am starting to transform into the teacher rather than the student.
My family is very active except for my dad. I do not know what his problem is so I should confront him first. He does work 3rd shift, so it is going to be very hard to try and work out with him. However, if I have to get up at 4:00 a.m. to make him work out, that is what I will do.
My sister and my mom are next. I feel as though they are doing things right, but they are not recognizing what they are doing. Yesterday after we all worked out, they wanted to go get a shake. Things like that are not helping their bodies.
I think it is time for a family meeting.
I hope this inspires you or your families to strive for a healthy life style. I want to affect as many people as possible. Please do not feel afraid to share your health stories with me. It will give both me and you motivation to work out more.
Happy Monday everyone!!! Keep your goals in mind for today!
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Another Day
I had to do a lot of stuff today that involved my computer skills.
I fixed two really slow computers to make them a lot faster and was able to get them working very well.
My computer also started having issues today. I kind of got a product key for Windows 7 ultimate and didn't pay for it. And Microsoft caught me. So I had to restart my computer all the way to factory mode so that way it would not go crazy like it was doing. (luckily I had a external hard drive and used that to save my music, movies, and documents.) After I finished all of that out. I noticed that there was something that I have been wanting to try on my computer. So I downloaded the new Windows 8 pre-download operating system (which is free, you can go to www.windows.com or something like that and download it. Only problem is that it does not read most virus protectors.) Since I didn't have one, I went ahead and downloaded it.
So now I am typing to you on what is pretty much a brand new Windows 8 HP computer with touch screen capabilities. I still have a lot to do but I really can get used to this window 8 stuff.
Anyways. I have a big day tomorrow. I would normally weigh in. But being at my real home is kind of a vacation for me so I know I have not lost any serious amount of weight. I am still going to the gym and still trying to eat healthy though.
Hope everyone had a great weekend and have a great rest of this Sunday night!
Saturday, June 2, 2012
Just another day.
I have done all three of these things today. And I can definitely tell I am going to be different person tomorrow.
Friday, June 1, 2012
Living life.
You know where you have the party to go to, helping the family out, and just being alive for all.
And yet I still apply my basic principle of thinking to it.
I have thought about today, I have thought about the choices I have made.
I have thought about how my life is going to be in the future.
and
I have smiled because today was a great day.
Happy Friday everyone!
Thursday, May 31, 2012
Good Morning
Thursday is usually my hardest day of the week, and it definitely seems that way today. I mostly have paper work to get done, and then I have to teach later. I am going to try to get a work out in, but I doubt that will happen (and honestly I am extremely sore...). Hopefully I can get most of my book keeping stuff finished, go teach, and then head home for about 5 days. I am really excited to see my family for the first time in a while. It always makes me happy when I can show them how much weight I have lost, and that I am skinnier than my dad.. XD
Anyways, everyone have a wonderful Thursday and try not to work too hard!!
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
The Night
Or did today inspire you to do something new, something you have never done before, did today make you want to float in the sky, or surf in Hawaii, or just relax and think about today. I am sure we have all had days like that.
Think about your day, you should always think. If you do not think, you do not live.
The Peanut Butter and Jelly
is what I had for lunch today.
That is what I really want to say,
so please show up, come, and stay.
PB&J is the most original thing,
it aint nothing but a fling,
and one bite of it and your taste buds will sting,
full of flavor.
Yes I did just make a poem about peanut butter and jelly. But seriously, it's PB&J time. And you can even get this exotic with the PB&J
Happy Wednesday!
Continuing on, I noticed that people in Russia have started to take notice of the blog. So I appreciate everyone from Russia tuning in to the Laughing Voyages. It really means a lot!
Finally I want to conclude that last night was absolutely amazing, If you have never seen the Blue Man Group I highly recommend it. These guys are mostly percussionist, and they do stuff on many different things such as pipes, gigantic balls, and of course, painting with the steel drums. Anyways I am totally supporting them as they finish up the concert series, If you have not seen them yet it is a must!
I hope everyone has an amazing Wednesday. I have to work out, go to the library, catch up on emails, work (busiest day), and of course eat some time between all of those... I will catch you guys later!
Tuesday, May 29, 2012
The Rhino
This is one of my favorite animals of all time. Why? Because of many reasons, but mostly because of the fact that they are shot and killed for the horns, and even though they are not in a position to fight back, they still are able to find places to keep living and nurture themselves. I usually do not go into the killing of the animals speech, but please do not hurt these animals. The pure beauty of Rhino is one of the many things that makes up the world. Why would you want them to go extinct? Let the Rhino's live!!!!!!!
Glaucus Atlanticus
That Moment
Or how about two birds hanging on that spring green tree.
And you stop and think how good it would be,
If you could have a moment like that.
But what if, you had moments like that all the time?
And you did not see them.
Would you not be blind?
--Andrew Price
Live a happy filled Tuesday everyone and find that happy moment
Monday, May 28, 2012
A wonderful night
Typing away.
Listening to one of my best friends playing jazz on a piano.
Not a care in the world.
not caring what tomorrow brings,
because today has been a gift.
And that is why it is called the present.
-Andrew Price
Hope Everyone had a wonderful memorial day.
The continuous motion
Happy Monday
Think about it, and have a Happy Monday.
Also Happy birthday to John F. Kennedy. In case you did not know, today was his birthday.
Sunday, May 27, 2012
The Musician
It is all around us.
And many things come out of music.
But I bet their are just as many things that go into it as their is coming out of it.
The emotion, the energy, the happiness, the sadness.
The love, the passion, the desire for more.
Yeah the people who have made the song, you are listening too.
Have the same feelings that the person that is listening to it does.
And I know that we put our feelings into the music so you can take them away from the music.
Your Welcome.
--Andrew Price
If we have freedom.
Not the bad, the evil, not making things go astray.
Let us use our freedom to help other, lets give them hope.
Let us throw some freedom out to the world, and let them catch the rope.
Let them pull freedom in and use it.
Together we can distribute it.
Make the world come together as one.
So their will be no more wars, it will only be fun."
-Andrew Price
Long time no see.
Saturday, May 26, 2012
Motivation.
Think about all of the things that you have gone through.
Think about the people that have been behind you.
Think about those people because people are true.
Think about the sweat, the tears, the hard work that you have put in,
and then and only then will you see yourself win.
-Andrew Price
Friday, May 25, 2012
The Barrier...
Thats my speech for the day. My parents are coming down later for dinner and are driving through to florence. Hope everyone has a happy Friday :D
Children
Okay so I went to an elementary school today to play bass ( I gave presentations to 3rd, 4th, 5th graders) They first off were the most adorable thing I have ever seen. And second their eyes went really big when I started playing (It did not matter what I played because they wanted to hear the sound rather than know the technique.
Which brings me to my next topic. Why are students not able to learn these subjects of fine art, such as strings in elementary school? Not only does it help students learn about music, it also gives them something to do that is not as stressful as something such as math or science.
Even the principals of schools, PRINCIPALS, are not letting students get their hands on a violin until middle school. It just really makes me upset.
So let your child play an instrument. Let them explore. Let them master for life.
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Thursday, May 24, 2012
Good things to talk about
Ask how your significant others day was. I mean seriously, how many couples say the 3 words of "How are you?" I mean honestly if you are really interested in someone and they are interested in you, more than likely the other person will respond with something besides "Good" or "Ok" or (my personal favorite) "Fine". Ladies and Gentle men, one word replies mean that something is on their mind, something that can be either good or bad, and more bad than good. If you are having trouble getting responses out of your significant other confront them with the fact that they seem down or upset about something. Give them time to explain.
Speaking of Giving time to explain, women if you really want a man interested in you, let him talk about his problems before you talk to him about yours. And by problems I mean ALL of them. Guys are humans just like women are and guys do have emotions. Let them speak their mind and try to help them before you butt in and make an even more negative remark about your life.
All examples can switch rolls between men and women. I just so happen to find a lot more information on women than men.
For example. (Real life situation, happens to me and friends that I talk to)
Girl: Hey how are you?
Boy: Okay I guess
Girl: I'm sorry
THIS DOES NOT HELP THE SITUATION INSTEAD YOU SHOULD SAY...
Girl: Why just okay?
Boy: rumbles and mumbles about some family instances that are making him stressed.
Girl: Well my cat died yesterday and I have been having a hard time.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!! do you see how crappy of an answer that is. The guy only explained a little bit of what could be a bigger situation. Instead ask if you can help, or if their is anything you can do. If you want to make an impression last, ask if you can help.
Do not dull the conversation.
Guy: "Hey how are you?"
Girl: "I am good"
Guy: "Thats good"
Girl: ":)"
DO NOT PUT A RANDOM SMILEY FACE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! people drive me insane with putting smiley faces. It's like you really couldnt ask me the same question I just asked you? I mean seriously if you can't even ask the person you like how they are doing, then chances are you do not want to be with them at all.
Ladies and Gentlemen, just remember to be kind and curteous to your significant other. They are with you for a reason. Find that reason and make it a happy relationship that is filled with natural conversation and joy.
Here are some things that are natural and just out of the blue. Three categories which I am dividing into are Starting to communicate on a daily basis, Seeing each other on a daily basis, and Being with each other in a full time relationship on a daily basis.
Starting to Communicate on a daily basis.
- So you have just met someone that you like and you want to know more about them. However you don't know what to ask or anything like that here are some things that can help you.
1) Start with Hello and your name
2) Ask a general question like "what do you do for a living" or "what is your major" or even a compliment like "I couldn't help but notice your eyes were sparkling in the light from where I was at." Compliments are a great way to keep the awkwardness away but too many compliments just turn out to be a sucking up process
So now you and your significant other are starting to meet and go to lunch together, or get a coffee or something to that nature. You want to know what to say when you sit down at a dinner table for 2 or a walk on the beach.
1) Ask about family. Family is a big thing for a lot of people. Asking if your significant other has any siblings or has a pet in the family or something like that would be of good interest. This usually leads to letting you know if the significant others parents are divorced if one of the parents has passed away. That is something to know for when you get to stage three with your partner. A lot of the information you will receive during this time will be things you will need to know for a long time. Example, birthday, family, jobs, hobbies, favorite team, stuff like that. It is where most of the talking takes place.
Finally you and your partner have decided to be in a full on relationship. Congrats! Now is the time when you should ask the important questions, the baggage that your partner has (if there is any you do not know of already), what does your partner want to do in the future (so like future plans), things that are their strong and weak point. and finally just being with each other overall is the main focus. Make sure to keep asking about your partner and complimenting and more if you desire. But remember it is all about how you approach someone and how they talk to you that makes the most impact on meeting someone new.
Have a great Thursday!
Good Tips to keep weight down and weight off for good!!
3) No late night snacks. This is a hard one for me. However a good thing that I like to do is weigh myself before I take a shower at night. Seeing your weight go down from a workout is a major motivation to keep off the late night snacks. Especially when you lose a pound of water weight over night just by sleeping.
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Finals for Maymester
Happy hump day everyone!
I am also going to try to get yogurt or a dairy product in me since I dont drink milk anymore. Yogurt helps build strong bones because of the calcium but the all natural yogurt also has fruits in it to help get the energy you need for morning time.
Hopefully this will help you make wise decisions about today. Have a happy voyage!!
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Time Flies
where does it stop no one knows.
One day turns into a week and a week into year
and we are still thinking of why we are here.
So instead of thinking about things we can do
get up and go do something, do something soon.
Because if you do not, time just my fly by."
-Andrew Price
Swimming
I had class from 11:00-12:45 and I wanted to go swimming. So I went swimming for the first time in over 2 years (mostly because I was bigger at the time.) It felt absolutely amazing to finally stick my feet back in the water and enjoy what I truly love to do is swim.
To bad my bathing suit barely fits. I need to get a new one :P
If you are hanging on in college.
http://www.collegescholarships.org/student-living/save-money.htm
Today I am switching things up
Here is what I am doing today.
1) Making toast instead of buying a subway english muffin
2) Going swimming instead of working out (however it is workout swimming)
3) Trying to start saving money
Let's see if you can start switching stuff up starting today! Its never to late!
Monday, May 21, 2012
Weight Loss
I started a journey on January 9th 2012, a journey that would help me live better, feel better, and breath better, I decided to lose weight.
Now most of you may question the fact that most people try to lose the 10 pounds or the fresman 15 or whatever but I was going big. 100 pounds was the goal.
So I started working out. And I have continued ever since. I have made tons of changes to my life in order for my health to be the way it needs to be.
Since the beginning of this journey I have lost 65 pounds. I have never felt better in my life and I still want to continue to my goal of 100 pounds.
However my schedule is not the same and I have been working out in the mornings rather than the evenings (which throws me off)
I need a motivation boost to keep going as I have hit the 60-65 pound mark for almost two weeks now.
Please help me get to the main goal of 100 pounds. Send all of your motivational thoughts and motivational stories. I am trying to be the healthiest person I can be.
Thank you guys and have a wonderful night!!
The amazing dances during the 20's and 30's
This makes me want to learn to dance... Which I just might
I think I am starting to understand this whole blog thing.
It is not about your day or your life. It is about what you try to give to other people.
It is about your caring heart that fits to the situations that need it.
It is the random acts of kindness that you give.
This blog will become better with experience but for now it has changed.
It has taken a new experience for me and I hope it will take on a new experience for you.
Please enjoy life and have a happy voyage.
Hope everyone has a great day! :D
Sunday, May 20, 2012
The impact of us all
Before I finally talked to someone about this. (I love her to death!) I realized some things that I have been going through and realized that maybe being lonely is only if you make it lonely. Maybe making your self talk to someone develops a life long friendship.
So I was finally content with myself and decided to start scrolling through random blogs to see what people have posted. And I came up to this one woman's blog (I am not naming her) who pretty much wrote a book about her experiences in her past and the help that she was seeking. Her story was one of most influential stories I have ever read and I knew that I had to input some comment about having a bright future ahead and such. It made me realize that you may not know somebody but does that really matter? Does it really matter how much you truly know somebody deep down to say hello to them, or to ask how their day was?
So I left the woman a comment and she immediately replied saying thank you and she was really sweet about the whole situation. I think that my one comment to some random stranger truly did help her.
Now if this is not a story that you can connect with, make your own. Try to have a smile on your face and say hello to someone when you wake up in the morning. It could just be the climax of your day, the start of your week, or the turning point of your month. You never know when a random act of kindness can create and relationship for decades to come.
Everyone have a safe and sound night.
Where Do I want to go?
I don't even want to go to a place that is near.
Send me far away into a distant land.
Maybe out to the middle of miles of sand.
Take me away I don't want to stay,
after seeing you I feel betrayed.
Words can't describe what you did to me,
how you can go on seeing the man you see.
And I think to myself of all of our times,
that we shared, and now I feel as though I am a mime.
I can not talk or give input but that's okay
because the pain you inflicted on me will not let me say
anything. Nothing at all."
Andrew Price
A Beautiful Monster
Good Sunday Afternoon everyone!
| View of a Garden in Charleston |
| Outside of Hymans Seafood Restaurant, the number 1 seafood restaurant in the South East |
| Photography from yours truly on a really pretty flower in Charleston |
| We sat at Hymans where Michael Phelps ate there. |
| A Market Street Sign in Charleston. If you do not go to Market Street you are missing out. |
Saturday, May 19, 2012
The Friday Afternoon of a College student
Smoking weed,
getting high,
having sex with someone they will never have sex with,
go to the movies with friends,
go bowling with friends.
What I am doing on this friday night.
Spending time with my wonderful family in a nice hotel 30 minutes outside of Charleston and going to see the beach.
Which one would you prefer??
Friday, May 18, 2012
Green Eggs and Ham
Sam!
If you will let me be,
I will try them.
You will see.
Say!
I like green eggs and ham!
I do! I like them, Sam-I-am!
And I would eat them in a boat.
And I would eat them with a goat...
And I will eat them in the rain.
And in the dark. And on a train.
And in a car. And in a tree.
They are so good, so good, you see!
So I will eat them in a box.
And I will eat them with a fox.
And I will eat them in a house.
And I will eat them with a mouse.
And I will eat them here and there.
Say! I will eat them ANYWHERE!
I do so like
green eggs and ham!
Thank you!
Thank you!
Sam-I-Am!
Thursday, May 17, 2012
The Page CHANGED
Speaking of random I forgot to put the random number of the day up.
46450
I found multiple searches when I looked up 46450 in the Google Maps.
First result was in a place called Mellerud V Sweden. Mellerud is a locality and seat of Mellerud Municipality, Vastra Gotaland County, Sweden. It has 3,750 inhabitants according to the 2010 census. (Thanks Wikipedia). Meaning this place is either pretty small for the people or their are not a lot of people (probably the second of the two judging by the pictures) Mullerud from the pictures shows a lot of open land and single houses followed by lots of land. Take a look.
I also found Kaunas Region in Lithuania. Kaunas is actually the second-largest city in Lithuania and has historically been a leading center of Lithuanian economic academic, and cultural life. The city's name is of Lithuanian origins and most likely derives from a personal name. There was a legendary story that claims that Kaunas was established by the Romans in ancient times. These Romans were supposedly led by a patriscian named Palemon, who had three sons - Barcus, Kunas, and Sperus. Palemon fled from Rome because he feared the mad Emperor Nero. Palemon, his sons and other relatives travelled all the way to Lithuania. After Palemon's death, his sons divided his land. Kunas got the land where Kaunas now stands. He built a fortress near the confluenc of the Nemunas and Neris rivers, and the city that grew up there was named after him. There is also a suburban region in the vicinity name "Palemonas".
In addition I found Valencia Spain. Specifically a place called Benifaio. Benifaio is a hippy town outside of Valencia and has some broken down houses and such according to videos that I have seen. However the people believe they are prospering and "sing before they eat."
And finally I found a place called Kouvola Finland, More specifically Enajarvi Finland. This is actually a zip code for the Lake Enajarvi in Finland. And even though this might be a unique name, their are actually four other lakes with the same name.
Wednesday, May 16, 2012
Malaysia
How many people have actually know Malaysia?? Not alot... Why? Because its a monarchy, a little different from the democracy the United States has. People might question this monarchy but the country itself has been alive for almost 4000 years. It has had many crisis like the U.S. but has still maintained the great nation that it is.
More beach information of Malaysia is here http://travelblog.viator.com/insiders-guide-to-malaysias-best-beaches/
| The Malaysian Flag |
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Random Number 5/15/2012
744
State Question 744 in Oklahoma will ask about giving more schools money for helping residents within the state. This was in 2010 so I do not know whether they did or not.
Besides that the year 744 was not that much more fun... There was only 2 Continents with humans on them, which were Europe and Asia. They were still at the beginning stages of civilization.
Sorry for a crappy number... I'll post a new one tomorrow :D
Hip hop music
http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/observe-report/id526294695
My first blog video...
Its just a brief introduction I will talk more later.
EVERYONE HAVE A GREAT TUESDAY!!!
Monday, May 14, 2012
Random number 5/14/2012
this number is the zip code to a place called Umea Sweden, pretty neat stuff!!
The first written mention of Umeå is from the 14th century. The northern parts of Sweden, including the counties of Västerbotten and Norrbotten, were settled by Sami people before this time, though not necessarily in the city's exact location. Umeå in its first form was a parish with a wooden church and trade post located in the section of town now known as Backen (or Kyrkbacken). Its location near the coast and on a river was probably one of the reasons that people chose to settle there.[4]For the next couple of centuries Umeå was a place consisting of scattered parishes, where merchandise originating with the Sami people was traded, and was the last inhabited place before the northern wilderness took over. However, no real city was built at the location selected by the king, and it lost its town privileges in the 1590s.[4]In 1622, a city was again founded by King Gustav II Adolf.[5] In 1638, it had about 40 houses.[4] It suffered from Russian attacks in 1714 and in 1720 when it was burnt to the ground. At the close of the Finnish War in 1809 the Russian army under Barclay de Tolly took Umeå and held it from June to August.[6]On 25 June 1888, a fire devastated the eastern parts of Umeå and at least 2,300 of the 3,000 inhabitants became homeless. In the restoration following the fire, silver birch trees were planted along wide avenues to prevent future fires from spreading.[7] For this reason Umeå is sometimes known as "Björkarnas Stad", the "City of Birches" or "Little Stockholm"[8] and the name of the Umeå ice-hockey team, Björklöven, means "The Birch Leaves".


